Monthly Archives: March 2012

BDSM

2 Doms For 1 Sub. Can It Work?

2 Doms For 1 Sub. Can It Work? For instance a master and a daddy type dominant?

In my own experience it shouldn’t present any issues if all involved are happy with the situation and the Master/Dom have a deep trust between themselves.

Picture by The Pain Files – BDSM

I’ve found in that kind of situation it is useful to have a ‘final authority’ (obviously the Master in this situation) who has the option to veto the other if their needs are conflicting, however, I suspect there needs to be a deep enough understanding between the two for that veto to almost never be used, in order to avoid the Dom partner feeling dispossessed.

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What Size Needles To Use For BDSM Play?

What Size Needles To Use For BDSM Play? The thickness of hypodermic needles are measured by a gauge number. The higher the number, the thinner the needle. The thinner the needle, the less you will feel it.

22G is a good size in my experience for general BDSM play.

For nervous beginners i might go to 25G – but TBH you probably won’t even feel 30G


Pictures by The Pain Files BDSM

I use 23G as a ‘standard’ needle, and up to 19G if pain is the aim