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BDSM Movie Review – Brutality

May 16, 2012 – 1:32 am

Movie Title: Brutality
Released By: Shadow Slaves 2012
Starring: China & Magick

The movie Brutality from Shadow Slaves is not for the faint at heart. The slave girl China is in for a harsh and prolonged treatment in the dungeon as her master Magick subjects to a wide range of severe and extreme punishments. The intro of the movie Brutality is mainly about submission and humiliation of the english amateur slave girl, however the action soon turns extremely painful, dark and almost gore-ish. The highlights of the movie is an intense suspension bondage of the chubby slavegirl who receives one of the most intense upside down whipping punishments seen on film and taking her way into hellpain territory.

The action only get harder from there as China has her big tits needle tortured and skewered. The needles are used to nail her tits to a table, causing severe pain and restraining her from any movement. But it doesnt stop there. A stapler is used to force her mouth shot. This is true edge play and extreme bdsm as only real sadists and masochists would enjoy it. If youre a bit kinky and fancy a little bondage in the bedroom with your fluffy handcuffs, the movie Brutality is NOT for you. If on the other hand you love to see the edges of human sexuality and just how extreme some slave girls and masochist enjoy going, it doesnt get much better than this! It is pure sexual brutality and sadomasochism.

The technical quality of the movie is just about perfect with a full HD download option and crisp pictures of the sadomasochistic action. You will find this BDSM Movie at Shadow Slaves

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Guide To Maintaining BDSM Relationships

May 2, 2012 – 9:59 pm

Such relations that are only a sort of sexual pleasure may also at times lead to following of certain rules and guidelines. Though the BDSM only involves enjoyment of either party and pain to another but at the same time there are certain legal rules that both of them needs to abide by in order to undergo a safe process. A quick view of that is only provided in the paragraph below.

The actions of dominations and submission include a variety of tasks being performed. In such actions one has the control on the other. Physical activities play a major role for the task. However it does not needs that while performing physical tasks there had to be physical contact between the two persons in BDSM behavioral traits.

There are certain names which are being assigned to the persons involved such as the dominant is referred to as the tops where as the submissive persons are referred to as the bottoms. Surprisingly they are also assigned with nicknames which are differentiated on the basis of male and female. The males are called as doms where as the females are called the dommens. There are also some females who play only for money they are known as dominatrix.

The levels of intensity needs the couple to follows some of the most required practices which along with the involving dominance and submission also includes a  range from the dominant ordering their “ slave ” around and ‘ forcing ’ them to perform certain activities, such as tied in the air, blindfolded, and whipped.

The distress or humiliation often includes the use of furniture or toilets, corporal punishment and may be forced depending on what the couple desires are. D and S relationships may also involve the degradation of the submissive partner where they may be treated as babies, dogs, or slaves, while the males might be subjected feminization. Sadism and masochism often goes hand-in-hand with domination and submission; dominant partners are known as sadists, and submissive are often masochists. Practices of bondage and discipline apply to satisfaction of any one of them. Sadists enjoy seeing their partners in pain or discomfort while masochists gain experience through the inflicted pain or discomfort.

However, there are many who refer to themselves as ‘switches ’. Whether in a romantic or sexual partnership, BDSM community always puts pressure on providing pleasure to any one of the party. The vast numbers of people who practice it following safe and legal measure are done unto the others. The use of safer language has become a very common practice whether be it in an emotionally or physically aroused situation. One may also make use of words that are generally used by people while sex to express feelings of pain or pleasure.

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Do I have a right to sexual dominance?

May 1, 2012 – 6:25 pm

Wow, just followed a friend to a post, which (as an aside) stated ‘a dom using BDSM for sexual gain has no right being a Dom’… Now I know BDSM isn’t always about sex, but are we at the point where sex is seen as a bad thing?

Personally, when I perform acts that could be considered BDSM in a non-professional setting and without specificly non-sexual guidelines, I try to turn my partner on. In fact I still do even in a professional setting, though in that case I don’t expect the effort to be reciprocated. If said partner is not previously a sexual partner this can often lead to sexual ‘gains’ (although I don’t generally think about sex in terms of gaining/losing, and would hope they get at least as much from the situation as I do)

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So it would seem at least one viewpoint (and the OP did say it was just her point of view) would consider I had no right to ‘be’ a ‘Dom’

To be fair I guess I never really refer to myself as a Dom anyway, except in professional situations or where it’s the most suitable tickbox, but quite a few others do refer to me that way, and I’m not sure I’m comfortable with having my right to the title revoked purely because BDSM is usually sexual for me.

Is this a common view – has the community come to a place where people feel BDSM should never be seductive?

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I support the OP’s right to her opinion of course, and to be clear it was a journal entry and this point was not the focus of the post, but it always makes me wonder when someone’s opinion is that I should have less rights. Maybe the comment was out of context and intended to refer specifically to the situation she described, but I’d be interested to hear whether anyone shares this view.

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BDSM in Fashion Trends

April 28, 2012 – 9:38 pm

Until recently, the BDSM concept unifying such practices as bondage, discipline, submission, domination, sadism and masochism, has been viewed as something indecent or illegal. However, it is now considered that any person is free to choose what behavior to adopt in his or her own sexual practice and if this choice is Safe, Sane and Consensual, there is nothing wrong about it. Such liberation of minds has given green light for BDSM subculture and so today there exist many BDSM communities with numerous followers all over the world. Communities of this kind have their own style of life, principles, rules, media and fashion.

BDSM, though criticized by society is considered legal in most countries.  For the hundreds of years of its existence the BDSM culture has developed certain BDSM fashion trends that are now incorporated into the BDSM lifestyle. The BDSM fashion can vary among different communities including the gay and lesbian BDSM culture. Things commonly associated with the BDSM fashion plays are latex, rubber, spandex and fishnet. The most common being the leather style. Leather in BDSM fashion is a frequent theme of fetish photography. Items of clothing characterizing BDSM fashion are stiletto, boots, corsets and garters. Even edible items of clothing are available but are expensive. A special niche among BDSM fashion garment is taken by fashion accessories like collars, muzzles, cuffs, etc. These special fashion clothes not only create the specific atmosphere for the scene, but are also used for such BDSM practices as movement restriction, suspension, etc. Due to the increasing acceptance of BDSM, there are such dedicated fashion stores, libraries, movies and toys available in the market.

Representation of the BDSM emblem in clothing or accessories like rings and earrings is also a piece of BDSM artwork that can serve as a complementing detail to signal the affiliation with the BDSM subculture for those familiar with it. Another popular form of BDSM artwork is tattoo. Symbols like thorns, chains, spiny flowers can also witness to membership of their owners to some BDSM community.

Before going into BDSM, a few principles should be considered. The first one is common sense in BDSM. It is very important to observe basic safety rules, be responsible for your own behavior and be prepared for the consequences that BDSM practice may entail. In fact, BDSM can be really safe and satisfying or just as well dangerous and distressing if no due precautions are taken. The next concept to be viewed is negotiation. BDSM relationship requires absolute trust in your partner and to bring the pleasure it can bring BDSM character should be discussed. Agreement on safety words and taboos, share of needs, concerns and desires is sure to return in manifold. And the last thing is the awareness of freedom of choice. Whatever experts, movies or books say, it is a decision of one’s own, and it should be taken knowingly

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How to address other doms / masters ?

April 16, 2012 – 5:51 pm

How to address other doms / masters ? How should a slave or submissive address a master or dominant that is not their own.

Well simply being polite and nice would be the first safe bet

That’s exactly right… if anyone other than your Master tells you you are doing it wrong they are being asshats


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Actually, further to my reply, obviously asking you not to use honorifics in the face of your usual instruction is a bit different… for instance if your Master tells you to call all male Doms ‘Sir’, then someone says they do not like it, it is of course good manners to respect that preference… the same does not go the other way though – if you are instructed to just be polite and another Dom says you should call him Sir or Master, just politely decline unless you want to and it’s cool with your Master.

 

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Labia Sewing / Labial Suturing

April 6, 2012 – 3:11 pm

I did my first actual labial suturing a few months back, and I have to say using a needle driver is trickier than it looks, so it’s worth wasting a couple of sutures to practice on an orange or similar just to get used to that and tying surgical knots.

Obviously if you are fluid bonded sterile gloves or or anti bac cleansed hands are an easier option than using a driver (which is of course not 100% sterile anyway once taken out of the pack in any environment but an operating theatre)

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Ok, couldnt find the labia sewing photos, so here we have some stapling instead untill I dig them up – courtesy of Shadow Slaves

The other factors I noticed were that outer labia are much tougher than you might expect from experience with hypodermics, and suture needles are much more painful.

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2 Doms / 1 Sub – Can It Work? (Follow Up)

April 2, 2012 – 5:31 pm

Thank you for all the comments, mails and suggestions. Heres a few more thoughts on 2 Doms / 1 Sub – Can It Work?

A lot of people here assuming that two people will inevitably have conflicts and drama… that’s not been my experience TBH. As I said earlier, I think there does need to be a hierarchy of some kind, with one or the other authority figure having a veto, but if they trust each other and are on the same page that will only ever be necessary when there’s a lack of communication between them.

My situation isn’t quite the same as there is no ‘Master’ involved, and we are all more SM orientated than Ds, but either way I think it comes down to communication and trust – between the dominant parties as much as with the sub.


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I’ve had to use my veto maybe twice in five years, and neither time was a big deal, just a case of one of us not holding all the information at the time… I certainly don’t consider myself to be any more important than Hinc, it’s simply a structure to avoid confusion.

Interesting too that one Master considers it would mean neither of us are really dominant but are serving the sub – I don’t think I’ve ever been accused of being a service top before, but it did give me a chuckle LOL

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What Is BDSM ?

April 1, 2012 – 1:18 am

We have had requests to cover some of the basics of BDSM, S/M, S&M or whatever you wish to call it. Books have been written about these topics, so we highly recommend you venture onwards to libraries, experienced fetish practitioners and more online ressources to find more information … but what we can try and provide now and then are a few of basic pointers and ideas behind the concepts, in this case BDSM itself, as that seems to be the most popular request.

What is BDSM

BDSM stands for Bondage Discipline Saddism and Masochism. It describes a relationship between two consentual partners of a sexual nature. Some features of BDSM include restraint, fantasy role playing using the concepts of power struggle (dominance and submission) and intense sensory stimulation.

Typically, those taking the dominant role in the relationship are termed as the “tops” or “dominants”. Individuals who are on the receiving end of the activities are usually termed the “bottoms” or “submissives”. In some relationships, the roles are reversible. In these cases, individuals involved are known as “switches”.

In conventional romantic relationships, there is an ideal of equality between the two participants. As a result, in modern culture, people often use the words “top” or “bottom” to refer to people in relationships where there is a clear imbalance of power regardless of whether or not it is an actual BDSM relationship. For example: “In Tyrone and Mark’s relationship, Tyrone is the bottom.”

BDSM actions are typically performed during a given time agreed upon by both parties. These may be called “sessions”, a “play” or a “scene”. During this time sexual intercourse (oral, anal or vaginal) may be engaged in. However, this is not always the case. The defining fact or a session would be the actions that they engage in which they derive pleasure from although which are commonly considered undesirable such as humiliation, inflicting pain or being restrained. Again, these practices are performed between consenting adults in order to be considered BDSM. This distinguishes BDSM from domestic violence or sexual assault.

There are two parallel ideologies behind BDSM. One is SSC. The other is RACK. SSC stands for “Safe, sane and consensual”. In SSC, safe practices are established ahead of time. RACK stands for “Risk Aware Consensual Kink”. In this method, it is the responsibility of the parties involved to know when it is getting out of hand. Each party is thus responsible for his or her own well-being. The main focus of this type of practice would be consent. A “safe word” may be initiated to create boundaries. A “safe word” is a word that can be said when you feel that you are no longer within the bounds of your own comfort zone. Sometimes a written contract is used to establish consent.

The safe word also makes it possible for the bottom to withdraw his or her consent to the actions being engaged in. Withdrawl of consent by use of a safe word is all that is needed to turn this from a sexual consent situation into a serious crime depending on the relevant law.

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2 Doms For 1 Sub. Can It Work?

March 20, 2012 – 5:29 pm

2 Doms For 1 Sub. Can It Work? For instance a master and a daddy type dominant?

In my own experience it shouldn’t present any issues if all involved are happy with the situation and the Master/Dom have a deep trust between themselves.


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I’ve found in that kind of situation it is useful to have a ‘final authority’ (obviously the Master in this situation) who has the option to veto the other if their needs are conflicting, however, I suspect there needs to be a deep enough understanding between the two for that veto to almost never be used, in order to avoid the Dom partner feeling dispossessed.

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What Size Needles To Use For BDSM Play?

March 5, 2012 – 7:09 pm

What Size Needles To Use For BDSM Play? The thickness of hypodermic needles are measured by a gauge number. The higher the number, the thinner the needle. The thinner the needle, the less you will feel it.

22G is a good size in my experience for general BDSM play.

For nervous beginners i might go to 25G – but TBH you probably won’t even feel 30G


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I use 23G as a ‘standard’ needle, and up to 19G if pain is the aim

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