2 Doms / 1 Sub – Can It Work? (Follow Up)

Thank you for all the comments, mails and suggestions. Heres a few more thoughts on 2 Doms / 1 Sub – Can It Work?

A lot of people here assuming that two people will inevitably have conflicts and drama… that’s not been my experience TBH. As I said earlier, I think there does need to be a hierarchy of some kind, with one or the other authority figure having a veto, but if they trust each other and are on the same page that will only ever be necessary when there’s a lack of communication between them.

My situation isn’t quite the same as there is no ‘Master’ involved, and we are all more SM orientated than Ds, but either way I think it comes down to communication and trust – between the dominant parties as much as with the sub.

Master & 2 Submissives – By Shadow Slaves

I’ve had to use my veto maybe twice in five years, and neither time was a big deal, just a case of one of us not holding all the information at the time… I certainly don’t consider myself to be any more important than Hinc, it’s simply a structure to avoid confusion.

Interesting too that one Master considers it would mean neither of us are really dominant but are serving the sub – I don’t think I’ve ever been accused of being a service top before, but it did give me a chuckle LOL