Subspace – Has the submissive had enough?
Does reaching subspace mean the submissive has had enough?
OK yes, this is the attitude I’ve generally experienced, and IMHO why book/internet learning is never enough to indulge in heavy scenes – you can study anatomy and first aid and practice your whip skills on teddy bears for years, and still not be able to make a judgement call like that.
Photos from Shadow Slaves – BDSM Movies
But starting to think that maybe this attitude is a minority one that I’m seeing more because of how I play in the first place (and therefore who wants to play with me) rather than a common goal for submissive/masochistic types.
Maybe it’s a chicken and egg scenario.
By Magick of The Pain Files and Shadow Slaves